In Part 1 of this series, I asked if you had ever read a list of study skills but just didn’t know how to go about making them happen. Like me, you’ve probably read a list of study tips and thought, ‘Yes, I’ve read all that before’. And you probably remember two weeks later being just as stressed about study and wondering what you could do to improve your study skills!! Well, I realised later that I had been reading that list of study skills and not really knowing how to put them into practise.
In this article, I continue with my idea of talking with people who have been very successful in their careers and finding out what study habit they thought was the biggest help in their student days. Here in Part 2, I speak with an older family friend (Robbie) who studied as a mature age student. What she first told me blew me away.
Robbie’s best study tip was this: Do the ironing!!!
At first I thought she had misunderstood but when I repeated the question she laughed and said, ‘Do the ironing – I mean it!!‘ As she talked through how she approached her studies as a mature age student, I began to see that there were similar elements to Uncle James’ approach but she had modified it to suit her situation. study in Germany
Here’s Robbie’s story: Although she was a good scholar, Robbie had not finished her business degree as she had decided to start a family early. When her daughter started school she found her brain was hungry for something new in her life so she decided to finish her degree. Full of eagerness to start her new challenge she soon found that there was just never enough hours in the day to do everything she wanted.
So study time and family time were now her priority after she left the office. She began to approach her study time in a ‘must do’ methodical manner reaching all the study deadlines imposed so she was rarely behind in her study schedule. Robbie then rewarded herself each day with precious family time as her way to relax. In this way, Robbie’s family time acted like Uncle James’ car time (see Part 1 of this series). Robbie’s family was her passion.
She soon realised that she’d made more and more short-cuts in the housework to keep up her family time. As she finished her last assignment, she found herself stressing about the pile of unironed clothes, the grubby bathroom, the messy pantry, etc, etc. She felt so full of restless energy the thought of having to force herself to sit and study for the final exams had her feeling stressed big time. Then Robbie hit on an idea which became her sanity saver at every exam time – she did the ironing!